Toby L.
2/5
Nurse's are very nice but I had a difficult time with Synthie and Doctor Con. Doctor Con told me he would get me out as soon as possible before the original discharge. But when he called with my mom he said he wouldn't, and he would go with the original date. Also they were adamant on the length of 7 days (My stay) from Synthie and Doctor Con. But I've heard from staff that it can be earlier. So I was a bit frustrated.
The staff on the adult unit I would like to appreciate is Alex. She was very nice and we talked all night when she was my head nurse. Joe was really nice. He had Kool-Aid scrubs and I felt really excited and happy when I saw him and he's just a nice man in general. Kyle is on top of the list he is very nice and very exceptional he played cards with me and he helped calm me down when I had my first major breakdown. He's a very understanding and kind person and I'm glad I got to talk to him and meet him for a few days. Shweta is a very nice girl. I didn't talk to her for a very long but she was very friendly while she was taking over for Alex so Alice could use the restroom. Anthony was very understanding he wanted to help everyone out because he knew that this in this environment isn't that helpful sometimes and he wanted to help us get out as soon as we can but also made us understand that our health should come first before getting out. Enrique is very friendly. He was very kind to me. We played a lot of card games together and he taught me how to play spades and I actually won surprisingly after only four rounds. I wish I was able to see him more so we could play more card games.
Also sorry for marking down one star to the person who watched me make this review. I felt a bit pressured and didn't want to make you feel bad.
But this experience here was very traumatic. At least one person was sedated once at least once a day. The place is just scary and it honestly not to use the word lightly traumatized me. It was very detrimental for my mental health and I learned that I just can never go to the menth hospital again or the ER at that if I need mental help. Like I don't think they understood me when I told them. I'm never going to a mental hospital ever again because this was the most isolating traumatizing and mentally deteriorating moment of my life. I was actually doing worse by the end of it compared to when I was admitted. I felt like I was not being listened to by the doctor and therapist. I felt like I was lied to multiple times and my hopes had gotten up. They were adamant on the fact that I would not be released before 7 days because that's the program. But 2 days before I got discharged today a lady was told she would be discharged from 2 to 3 days from she was admitted. And one of the nurses. I'm not going to name names because I don't want them to get in trouble because they were very nice to me. Told me that they have seen patients get out before 7 days when my therapist told me repeatedly that no one has gotten out before 7 days. There was no reason for them to keep me there. I was not suicidal. I have never harmed myself. I've never committed suicide before and still haven't. I was extremely stressed out and scared and they refused to let me go even though they had no reason for me to stay there. Even when I was adamant and my mom was adamant on the fact that this place was worsening my mental health and it was stressing me out. I understand my mental health is bad and people like me should seek help in refuge and have a safe place to go, but this is not the hospital to go to. I have heard nothing but worse experiences from this place and I hope nobody suffers here and go through the frustration and stress I did at this hospital. The staff is very lovely and they are not at fault for this situation at all. They can't control what the people above them are doing. Like I said before who I was praising they were absolutely amazing and they helped me not suffer as much as I could without them in this hospital.